ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
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ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani

US citizen Sally El-Hassani, widow of US-Morrocan ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani, revealed that they brought thousands of dollars with them to buy slaves from a market in Raqqa. Her husband, who was killed in the Syrian city, had sex with two of the slaves. She also tried to escape Raqqa and was jailed and sexually abused by ISIS for three months.

In an interview with CNN, Sally, 32, said her journey began in Elkhart, Indiana, where she and her husband worked at a delivery company. They lived with Matthew, her son from her first marriage to a US soldier, and their daughter Sarah. Moussa El-Hassani came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year in 2014.

He then promised her a holiday when she went to Hong Kong in 2014. The couple was planning to move to Morocco to start a new, cheaper life, she says, and needed to go through Hong Kong to transfer money. Days later, Sally says, she found herself on the Turkish border with Syria, on the edge of ISIS territory.

There, her husband held her daughter while she held her son confronted with an impossible choice: Abandon her daughter to ISIS and save her son, or follow her husband into ISIS' territory.

Following him was the only way to protect her daughter, she indicated.

"To stay there with my son or watch my daughter leave with my husband -- I had to make a decision," Sally, told CNN in northern Syria in a prison managed by Kurds, adding: "maybe I would never have seen my daughter again ever, and how can I live the rest of my life like that."

She explained that their marriage faced a difficult phase and her husband used drugs and cheated on her, showing few signs of devout faith, but he came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year.

When they reached the Turkish border, Hassani refused to let her leave the hotel room, saying the city was "too dangerous." He also ordered her to wear the veil if she were to leave the room.

"Once we got to Sanliurfa everything changed," she says, adding: "I was like a prisoner in the room."

She admitted that in her twenties, she was so submissive to her husband, recalling: "This was years in the making. He separated me from my family. I could not see that he was the one that was wrong. It was always 'no, my husband is right.'"

"People can think whatever they want but they have not been put in a place to make a decision like that," she commented.

Her relationship with Hassani changed once they became inside the ISIS town.

"Before he would spoil me. 'I love you.' We were very much in love. The romance never left. As soon as we came here it changed. I was a dog. I didn't have any choice. He was extremely violent. And there was nothing I could do about it. Nothing," she told the interviewer.

Sally says she feared divorcing him as that would leave her and her children yet more vulnerable in ISIS' society. She said at one point she was jailed by ISIS for three months while pregnant for trying to escape and for alleged espionage for the US.

In 2014, the terror group controlled Yazidi areas in west Iraq, and many of the younger women were being sold as slaves, some purely for the purposes of sexual abuse.

Sally said her husband suggested some Yazidi slaves would help keep Sally company while he was away, and he took her to the slave market. There she saw Soad.

"When I met Soad, I couldn't think about money, I needed to help her," she said. The teenage girl cost her $10,000 half the money she says she smuggled with her from their US savings. She brought Soad home, and soon, her husband began raping her.

He soon decided to "buy" his own slave, using another $7,500 from their savings to purchase Bedrine, who was younger than Soad. She was also raped by Hassani. The family also bought a young boy, Aham, for $1,500 later still.

Asked by CNN if she felt she enabled the girls' serial rape, she said: "In every house that she was in before that was the same situation, but she did not have the support of someone like me. We constantly talked about going to see her mother. I was going to get her out and she was going to go back home."

Sally continued to say that no one will ever know what it is like to watch their husband rape a 14-year-old girl.

"Then she comes to you -- me -- after crying and I hold her and tell her it's going to be OK. Everything is going to be fine, just be patient," she indicated.



Activist Aid Ship Nears Gaza After Reaching Egypt Coast

 Climate activist Greta Thunberg stands near a Palestinian flag after boarding the Madleen boat and before setting sail for Gaza along with activists of the Freedom Flotilla Coalition, departing from the Sicilian port of Catania, Italy, Sunday, June 1, 2025. (AP)
Climate activist Greta Thunberg stands near a Palestinian flag after boarding the Madleen boat and before setting sail for Gaza along with activists of the Freedom Flotilla Coalition, departing from the Sicilian port of Catania, Italy, Sunday, June 1, 2025. (AP)
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Activist Aid Ship Nears Gaza After Reaching Egypt Coast

 Climate activist Greta Thunberg stands near a Palestinian flag after boarding the Madleen boat and before setting sail for Gaza along with activists of the Freedom Flotilla Coalition, departing from the Sicilian port of Catania, Italy, Sunday, June 1, 2025. (AP)
Climate activist Greta Thunberg stands near a Palestinian flag after boarding the Madleen boat and before setting sail for Gaza along with activists of the Freedom Flotilla Coalition, departing from the Sicilian port of Catania, Italy, Sunday, June 1, 2025. (AP)

An aid ship with 12 activists on board, including Swedish climate campaigner Greta Thunberg, has reached the Egyptian coast and is nearing the besieged Palestinian territory, organizers said on Saturday.

The Madleen, part of the Freedom Flotilla Coalition, left Sicily last week with a cargo of relief supplies "to break Israel's blockade on Gaza".

"We are now sailing off the Egyptian coast," German human rights activist Yasemin Acar told AFP. "We are all good," she added.

In a statement from London on Saturday, the International Committee for Breaking the Siege of Gaza -- a member organization of the flotilla coalition -- said the ship had entered Egyptian waters.

The group said it remains in contact with international legal and human rights bodies to ensure the safety of those on board, warning that any interception would constitute "a blatant violation of international humanitarian law".

European parliament member Rima Hassan, who is on board the vessel, urged governments to "guarantee safe passage for the Freedom Flotilla."

The Palestinian territory was under Israeli naval blockade even before the October 7, 2023 attack by Hamas that sparked the Gaza war and Israel has enforced its blockade with military action in the past.

A 2010 commando raid on the Turkish ship Mavi Marmara, which was part of a similar aid flotilla trying to breach the blockade, left 10 civilians dead.

In May, another Freedom Flotilla ship, the Conscience, reported coming under drone attack while en route for Gaza, prompting Cyprus and Malta to send rescue vessels in response to its distress call. There were no reports of any casualties.

Earlier in its voyage, the Madleen changed course near the Greek island of Crete after receiving a distress signal from a sinking migrant boat.

Activists rescued four Sudanese migrants who had jumped into the sea to avoid being returned to Libya. The four were later transferred to an EU Frontex vessel.

Launched in 2010, the Freedom Flotilla Coalition is a coalition of groups opposed to the blockade on humanitarian aid for Gaza that Israel imposed on March 2 and has only partially eased since.

Israel has faced mounting international condemnation over the resulting humanitarian crisis in the territory, where the United Nations has warned the entire population of more than two million is at risk of famine.