ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
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ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani

US citizen Sally El-Hassani, widow of US-Morrocan ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani, revealed that they brought thousands of dollars with them to buy slaves from a market in Raqqa. Her husband, who was killed in the Syrian city, had sex with two of the slaves. She also tried to escape Raqqa and was jailed and sexually abused by ISIS for three months.

In an interview with CNN, Sally, 32, said her journey began in Elkhart, Indiana, where she and her husband worked at a delivery company. They lived with Matthew, her son from her first marriage to a US soldier, and their daughter Sarah. Moussa El-Hassani came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year in 2014.

He then promised her a holiday when she went to Hong Kong in 2014. The couple was planning to move to Morocco to start a new, cheaper life, she says, and needed to go through Hong Kong to transfer money. Days later, Sally says, she found herself on the Turkish border with Syria, on the edge of ISIS territory.

There, her husband held her daughter while she held her son confronted with an impossible choice: Abandon her daughter to ISIS and save her son, or follow her husband into ISIS' territory.

Following him was the only way to protect her daughter, she indicated.

"To stay there with my son or watch my daughter leave with my husband -- I had to make a decision," Sally, told CNN in northern Syria in a prison managed by Kurds, adding: "maybe I would never have seen my daughter again ever, and how can I live the rest of my life like that."

She explained that their marriage faced a difficult phase and her husband used drugs and cheated on her, showing few signs of devout faith, but he came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year.

When they reached the Turkish border, Hassani refused to let her leave the hotel room, saying the city was "too dangerous." He also ordered her to wear the veil if she were to leave the room.

"Once we got to Sanliurfa everything changed," she says, adding: "I was like a prisoner in the room."

She admitted that in her twenties, she was so submissive to her husband, recalling: "This was years in the making. He separated me from my family. I could not see that he was the one that was wrong. It was always 'no, my husband is right.'"

"People can think whatever they want but they have not been put in a place to make a decision like that," she commented.

Her relationship with Hassani changed once they became inside the ISIS town.

"Before he would spoil me. 'I love you.' We were very much in love. The romance never left. As soon as we came here it changed. I was a dog. I didn't have any choice. He was extremely violent. And there was nothing I could do about it. Nothing," she told the interviewer.

Sally says she feared divorcing him as that would leave her and her children yet more vulnerable in ISIS' society. She said at one point she was jailed by ISIS for three months while pregnant for trying to escape and for alleged espionage for the US.

In 2014, the terror group controlled Yazidi areas in west Iraq, and many of the younger women were being sold as slaves, some purely for the purposes of sexual abuse.

Sally said her husband suggested some Yazidi slaves would help keep Sally company while he was away, and he took her to the slave market. There she saw Soad.

"When I met Soad, I couldn't think about money, I needed to help her," she said. The teenage girl cost her $10,000 half the money she says she smuggled with her from their US savings. She brought Soad home, and soon, her husband began raping her.

He soon decided to "buy" his own slave, using another $7,500 from their savings to purchase Bedrine, who was younger than Soad. She was also raped by Hassani. The family also bought a young boy, Aham, for $1,500 later still.

Asked by CNN if she felt she enabled the girls' serial rape, she said: "In every house that she was in before that was the same situation, but she did not have the support of someone like me. We constantly talked about going to see her mother. I was going to get her out and she was going to go back home."

Sally continued to say that no one will ever know what it is like to watch their husband rape a 14-year-old girl.

"Then she comes to you -- me -- after crying and I hold her and tell her it's going to be OK. Everything is going to be fine, just be patient," she indicated.



Hamas Says Israeli Troops Sticking Point in Truce Talks as Gaza Pounded

Palestinians sit in front of their makeshift home in the Bureij refugee camp in the central Gaza Strip on July 10, 2025. (Photo by Eyad BABA / AFP)
Palestinians sit in front of their makeshift home in the Bureij refugee camp in the central Gaza Strip on July 10, 2025. (Photo by Eyad BABA / AFP)
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Hamas Says Israeli Troops Sticking Point in Truce Talks as Gaza Pounded

Palestinians sit in front of their makeshift home in the Bureij refugee camp in the central Gaza Strip on July 10, 2025. (Photo by Eyad BABA / AFP)
Palestinians sit in front of their makeshift home in the Bureij refugee camp in the central Gaza Strip on July 10, 2025. (Photo by Eyad BABA / AFP)

Hamas on Thursday said it opposes any ceasefire deal that includes a large Israeli military presence in Gaza, after offering to release some hostages and as the civil defense reported scores of civilians killed across the Palestinian territory.

The group said late Wednesday that it had agreed to release 10 people seized in its October 7, 2023 attack on Israel that sparked the war.

Both sides have been holding indirect talks in Qatar to agree a temporary halt in the conflict and the United States says it is hopeful of a 60-day truce in the coming days.

But Hamas said in its announcement of the partial hostage release that disagreements over the free flow of aid into Gaza and Israel's military withdrawal were sticking points in the discussions.

It also wants "real guarantees" for a lasting peace.

Senior Hamas official Bassem Naim on Thursday said the group was committed to the talks to end the war "as soon as possible".

But he told AFP: "We cannot accept the perpetuation of the occupation of our land and the surrender of our people to isolated enclaves under the control of the occupation army (Israel).

"This is what the negotiating delegation is presenting to the occupation so far in the current round of negotiations in Doha."

Hamas was particularly opposed to Israeli control over Rafah, on the border with Egypt, and the so-called Morag Corridor between the southern city and Khan Yunis, he added.

Israel announced earlier this year that the army was seizing large areas in Gaza and incorporating them into buffer zones cleared of their inhabitants, as a way of pressuring Hamas to release hostages.

Naim also said the group wanted an end to the current delivery of aid by a US- and Israel-backed group, a system which has seen scores killed while seeking handouts.

Unanswered questions

Hamas has given no timeline for the release of hostages or indications about the return of the bodies of nine detainees that Israel says have died in captivity.

Its announcement came as Israel's Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu wrapped up a visit this week to the United States that focused heavily on the ceasefire talks.

Netanyahu, under pressure at home to end the war as military casualties increase, was initially uncompromising in his bid to crush Hamas and neutralize it as a security threat to Israel.

But after two high-profile meetings with Donald Trump, he indicated that a temporary truce deal could be on the horizon, echoing the US president's own optimism that a deal can be struck soon.

On the ground in Gaza, there was no let-up in civilian casualties on Thursday, with the civil defense agency reporting 52 killed in Israeli strikes and shooting across the embattled territory.

There was no immediate comment from the Israeli military and AFP is unable to independently verify the tolls and details due to media restrictions in Gaza.

But agency official Mohammed al-Mughair said in the deadliest strike, eight children were among 17 killed when Israeli aircraft targeted "a gathering of civilians in front of a medical point" in Deir el-Balah.

Separate strikes and shooting were reported elsewhere across Gaza, with people displaced by the 21-month conflict among the casualties as well as three people near an aid center, he added.

The deaths cap another bloody week in Gaza, after the authorities reported at least 29 were killed on Wednesday, 26 on Tuesday and 12 on Monday.

Overall, the health ministry in Hamas-run Gaza said at least 57,680 Palestinians, most of them civilians, have been killed since the start of the conflict.

Hamas's attacks on border communities in Israel that sparked the war led to the deaths of 1,219 people, most of them civilians, according to an AFP tally based on Israeli figures.

A total of 251 hostages were seized in the attack. Forty-nine are still being held in Gaza, including 27 the Israeli military says are dead.