ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
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ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani

US citizen Sally El-Hassani, widow of US-Morrocan ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani, revealed that they brought thousands of dollars with them to buy slaves from a market in Raqqa. Her husband, who was killed in the Syrian city, had sex with two of the slaves. She also tried to escape Raqqa and was jailed and sexually abused by ISIS for three months.

In an interview with CNN, Sally, 32, said her journey began in Elkhart, Indiana, where she and her husband worked at a delivery company. They lived with Matthew, her son from her first marriage to a US soldier, and their daughter Sarah. Moussa El-Hassani came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year in 2014.

He then promised her a holiday when she went to Hong Kong in 2014. The couple was planning to move to Morocco to start a new, cheaper life, she says, and needed to go through Hong Kong to transfer money. Days later, Sally says, she found herself on the Turkish border with Syria, on the edge of ISIS territory.

There, her husband held her daughter while she held her son confronted with an impossible choice: Abandon her daughter to ISIS and save her son, or follow her husband into ISIS' territory.

Following him was the only way to protect her daughter, she indicated.

"To stay there with my son or watch my daughter leave with my husband -- I had to make a decision," Sally, told CNN in northern Syria in a prison managed by Kurds, adding: "maybe I would never have seen my daughter again ever, and how can I live the rest of my life like that."

She explained that their marriage faced a difficult phase and her husband used drugs and cheated on her, showing few signs of devout faith, but he came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year.

When they reached the Turkish border, Hassani refused to let her leave the hotel room, saying the city was "too dangerous." He also ordered her to wear the veil if she were to leave the room.

"Once we got to Sanliurfa everything changed," she says, adding: "I was like a prisoner in the room."

She admitted that in her twenties, she was so submissive to her husband, recalling: "This was years in the making. He separated me from my family. I could not see that he was the one that was wrong. It was always 'no, my husband is right.'"

"People can think whatever they want but they have not been put in a place to make a decision like that," she commented.

Her relationship with Hassani changed once they became inside the ISIS town.

"Before he would spoil me. 'I love you.' We were very much in love. The romance never left. As soon as we came here it changed. I was a dog. I didn't have any choice. He was extremely violent. And there was nothing I could do about it. Nothing," she told the interviewer.

Sally says she feared divorcing him as that would leave her and her children yet more vulnerable in ISIS' society. She said at one point she was jailed by ISIS for three months while pregnant for trying to escape and for alleged espionage for the US.

In 2014, the terror group controlled Yazidi areas in west Iraq, and many of the younger women were being sold as slaves, some purely for the purposes of sexual abuse.

Sally said her husband suggested some Yazidi slaves would help keep Sally company while he was away, and he took her to the slave market. There she saw Soad.

"When I met Soad, I couldn't think about money, I needed to help her," she said. The teenage girl cost her $10,000 half the money she says she smuggled with her from their US savings. She brought Soad home, and soon, her husband began raping her.

He soon decided to "buy" his own slave, using another $7,500 from their savings to purchase Bedrine, who was younger than Soad. She was also raped by Hassani. The family also bought a young boy, Aham, for $1,500 later still.

Asked by CNN if she felt she enabled the girls' serial rape, she said: "In every house that she was in before that was the same situation, but she did not have the support of someone like me. We constantly talked about going to see her mother. I was going to get her out and she was going to go back home."

Sally continued to say that no one will ever know what it is like to watch their husband rape a 14-year-old girl.

"Then she comes to you -- me -- after crying and I hold her and tell her it's going to be OK. Everything is going to be fine, just be patient," she indicated.



Displaced Syrians Who Have Returned Home Face a Fragile Future, Says UN Refugees Chief

A handout picture released by the official Syrian Arab News Agency (SANA) shows Syria's interim Foreign Minister Asaad al-Shaibani (R) meeting with United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees Filippo Grandi in the Syrian capital Damascus on June 20, 2025. (SANA / AFP)
A handout picture released by the official Syrian Arab News Agency (SANA) shows Syria's interim Foreign Minister Asaad al-Shaibani (R) meeting with United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees Filippo Grandi in the Syrian capital Damascus on June 20, 2025. (SANA / AFP)
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Displaced Syrians Who Have Returned Home Face a Fragile Future, Says UN Refugees Chief

A handout picture released by the official Syrian Arab News Agency (SANA) shows Syria's interim Foreign Minister Asaad al-Shaibani (R) meeting with United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees Filippo Grandi in the Syrian capital Damascus on June 20, 2025. (SANA / AFP)
A handout picture released by the official Syrian Arab News Agency (SANA) shows Syria's interim Foreign Minister Asaad al-Shaibani (R) meeting with United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees Filippo Grandi in the Syrian capital Damascus on June 20, 2025. (SANA / AFP)

UN High Commissioner for Refugees Filippo Grandi said Friday that more than two million Syrian refugees and internally displaced people have returned home since the fall of the government of Bashar al-Assad in December.

Speaking during a visit to Damascus that coincided with World Refugee Day, Grandi described the situation in Syria as “fragile and hopeful” and warned that the returnees may not remain if Syria does not get more international assistance to rebuild its war-battered infrastructure.

“How can we make sure that the return of the Syrian displaced or refugees is sustainable, that people don’t move again because they don’t have a house or they don’t have a job or they don’t have electricity?” Grandi asked a small group of journalists after the visit, during which he met with Syrian Foreign Minister Asaad al-Shaibani and spoke with returning refugees.

“What is needed for people to return, electricity but also schools, also health centers, also safety and security,” he said.

Syria’s near 14-year civil war, which ended last December with the ouster of Assad in a lightning opposition offensive, killed nearly half a million people and displaced half the country’s pre-war population of 23 million.

Grandi said that 600,000 Syrians have returned to the country since Assad’s fall, and about another 1.5 million internally displaced people returned to their homes in the same period.

However, there is little aid available for the returnees, with multiple crises in the region -- including the new Israel-Iran war -- and shrinking support from donors. The UNHCR has reduced programs for Syrian refugees in neighboring countries, including healthcare, education and cash support for hundreds of thousands in Lebanon.

“The United States suspended all foreign assistance, and we were very much impacted, like others, and also other donors in Europe are reducing foreign assistance,” Grandi said, adding: “I tell the Europeans in particular, be careful. Remember 2015, 2016 when they cut food assistance to the Syrian refugees in Lebanon and Jordan, the Syrians moved toward Europe.”

Some have also fled for security reasons since Assad's fall. While the situation has stabilized since then, particularly in Damascus, the new government has struggled to extend its control over all areas of the country and to bring a patchwork of former opposition groups together into a national army.

Grandi said the UNHCR has been in talks with the Lebanese government, which halted official registration of new refugees in 2015, to register the new refugees and “provide them with basic assistance.”

“This is a complex community, of course, for whom the chances of return are not so strong right now,” he said. He said he had urged the Syrian authorities to make sure that measures taken in response to the attacks on civilians “are very strong and to prevent further episodes of violence.”

The Israel-Iran war has thrown further fuel on the flames in a region already dealing with multiple crises. Grandi noted that Iran is hosting millions of refugees from Afghanistan who may now be displaced again.

The UN does not yet have a sense of how many people have fled the conflict between Iran and Israel, he said.

“We know that some Iranians have gone to neighboring countries, like Azerbaijan or Armenia, but we have very little information. No country has asked for help yet,” he said. “And we have very little sense of the internal displacement, because my colleagues who are in Iran - they’re working out of bunkers because of the bombs.”