ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
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ISIS Widow: I Stayed with my Husband for the Sake of the Children

Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani
Sally El-Hassani and ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani

US citizen Sally El-Hassani, widow of US-Morrocan ISIS member Moussa El-Hassani, revealed that they brought thousands of dollars with them to buy slaves from a market in Raqqa. Her husband, who was killed in the Syrian city, had sex with two of the slaves. She also tried to escape Raqqa and was jailed and sexually abused by ISIS for three months.

In an interview with CNN, Sally, 32, said her journey began in Elkhart, Indiana, where she and her husband worked at a delivery company. They lived with Matthew, her son from her first marriage to a US soldier, and their daughter Sarah. Moussa El-Hassani came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year in 2014.

He then promised her a holiday when she went to Hong Kong in 2014. The couple was planning to move to Morocco to start a new, cheaper life, she says, and needed to go through Hong Kong to transfer money. Days later, Sally says, she found herself on the Turkish border with Syria, on the edge of ISIS territory.

There, her husband held her daughter while she held her son confronted with an impossible choice: Abandon her daughter to ISIS and save her son, or follow her husband into ISIS' territory.

Following him was the only way to protect her daughter, she indicated.

"To stay there with my son or watch my daughter leave with my husband -- I had to make a decision," Sally, told CNN in northern Syria in a prison managed by Kurds, adding: "maybe I would never have seen my daughter again ever, and how can I live the rest of my life like that."

She explained that their marriage faced a difficult phase and her husband used drugs and cheated on her, showing few signs of devout faith, but he came up with a plan to move to his native Morocco for a year.

When they reached the Turkish border, Hassani refused to let her leave the hotel room, saying the city was "too dangerous." He also ordered her to wear the veil if she were to leave the room.

"Once we got to Sanliurfa everything changed," she says, adding: "I was like a prisoner in the room."

She admitted that in her twenties, she was so submissive to her husband, recalling: "This was years in the making. He separated me from my family. I could not see that he was the one that was wrong. It was always 'no, my husband is right.'"

"People can think whatever they want but they have not been put in a place to make a decision like that," she commented.

Her relationship with Hassani changed once they became inside the ISIS town.

"Before he would spoil me. 'I love you.' We were very much in love. The romance never left. As soon as we came here it changed. I was a dog. I didn't have any choice. He was extremely violent. And there was nothing I could do about it. Nothing," she told the interviewer.

Sally says she feared divorcing him as that would leave her and her children yet more vulnerable in ISIS' society. She said at one point she was jailed by ISIS for three months while pregnant for trying to escape and for alleged espionage for the US.

In 2014, the terror group controlled Yazidi areas in west Iraq, and many of the younger women were being sold as slaves, some purely for the purposes of sexual abuse.

Sally said her husband suggested some Yazidi slaves would help keep Sally company while he was away, and he took her to the slave market. There she saw Soad.

"When I met Soad, I couldn't think about money, I needed to help her," she said. The teenage girl cost her $10,000 half the money she says she smuggled with her from their US savings. She brought Soad home, and soon, her husband began raping her.

He soon decided to "buy" his own slave, using another $7,500 from their savings to purchase Bedrine, who was younger than Soad. She was also raped by Hassani. The family also bought a young boy, Aham, for $1,500 later still.

Asked by CNN if she felt she enabled the girls' serial rape, she said: "In every house that she was in before that was the same situation, but she did not have the support of someone like me. We constantly talked about going to see her mother. I was going to get her out and she was going to go back home."

Sally continued to say that no one will ever know what it is like to watch their husband rape a 14-year-old girl.

"Then she comes to you -- me -- after crying and I hold her and tell her it's going to be OK. Everything is going to be fine, just be patient," she indicated.



Kurdish PKK Militants Burn Weapons in Iraq to Launch Disarmament

 Armed PKK fighters arrive ahead of a disarming ceremony in Sulaimaniya, Iraq, July 11, 2025, in this screengrab obtained from a handout video. KURDISTAN WORKERS PARTY MEDIA OFFICE/Handout via REUTERS
Armed PKK fighters arrive ahead of a disarming ceremony in Sulaimaniya, Iraq, July 11, 2025, in this screengrab obtained from a handout video. KURDISTAN WORKERS PARTY MEDIA OFFICE/Handout via REUTERS
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Kurdish PKK Militants Burn Weapons in Iraq to Launch Disarmament

 Armed PKK fighters arrive ahead of a disarming ceremony in Sulaimaniya, Iraq, July 11, 2025, in this screengrab obtained from a handout video. KURDISTAN WORKERS PARTY MEDIA OFFICE/Handout via REUTERS
Armed PKK fighters arrive ahead of a disarming ceremony in Sulaimaniya, Iraq, July 11, 2025, in this screengrab obtained from a handout video. KURDISTAN WORKERS PARTY MEDIA OFFICE/Handout via REUTERS

Thirty Kurdistan Workers Party (PKK) militants burned their weapons at the mouth of a cave in northern Iraq on Friday, marking a symbolic but significant step toward ending a decades-long insurgency against Türkiye.

Footage from the ceremony showed the fighters, half of them women, queuing to place AK-47 assault rifles, bandoliers and other guns into a large grey cauldron. Flames later engulfed the black gun shafts pointed to the sky, as Kurdish, Iraqi and Turkish officials watched nearby, Reuters reported.

The PKK, locked in conflict with the Turkish state and outlawed since 1984, decided in May to disband, disarm and end its separatist struggle after a public call to do so from its long-imprisoned leader Abdullah Ocalan.

After a series of failed peace efforts, the new initiative could pave the way for Ankara to end an insurgency that has killed over 40,000 people, burdened the economy and wrought deep social and political divisions in Türkiye and the wider region.

President Tayyip Erdogan said he hoped the PKK's dissolution would bolster Turkish security and regional stability. "May God grant us success in achieving our goals on this path we walk for the security of our country, the peace of our nation, and the establishment of lasting peace in our region," he said on X.

Friday's ceremony was held at the entrance of the Jasana cave in the town of Dukan, 60 km (37 miles) northwest of Sulaymaniyah in the Kurdistan region of Iraq's north.

The fighters, in beige military fatigues, were flanked by four commanders including senior PKK figure Bese Hozat, who read a statement in Turkish declaring the group's decision to disarm.

"We voluntarily destroy our weapons, in your presence, as a step of goodwill and determination," she said, before another commander read the same statement in Kurdish.

Helicopters hovered overhead, with dozens of Iraqi Kurdish security forces surrounding the mountainous area, a Reuters witness said.

The ceremony was attended by Turkish and Iraqi intelligence figures, officials of Iraq's Kurdistan regional government and senior members of Türkiye's pro-Kurdish DEM party - which also played a key role this year facilitating the PKK's disarmament decision.

It was unclear when further handovers would take place.

A senior Turkish official said the arms handover marked an "irreversible turning point" in the peace process, while another government source said ensuing steps would include the legal reintegration of PKK members into society in Türkiye and efforts to heal communities and promote reconciliation.

The PKK has been based in northern Iraq after being pushed well beyond Türkiye's southeastern frontier in recent years. Türkiye's military carries out regular strikes on PKK bases in the region and established several military outposts there.

The end of NATO member Türkiye's conflict with the PKK could have consequences across the region, including in neighboring Syria where the United States is allied with Syrian Kurdish forces that Ankara deems a PKK offshoot.

Washington and Ankara want those Kurds to quickly integrate with Syria's security structure, which has been undergoing reconfiguration since the fall in December of autocratic President Bashar al-Assad. PKK disarmament could add to this pressure, analysts say.

The PKK, DEM and Ocalan have all called on Erdogan's government to address Kurdish demands for more rights in regions where Kurds form a majority, particularly Türkiye's southeast where the insurgency was concentrated.

In a rare online video published on Wednesday, Ocalan - whose large image was shown at the weapons ceremony - also urged Türkiye's parliament to set up a commission to oversee disarmament and manage the broader peace process.

Ankara has taken steps toward forming the commission, while the DEM and Ocalan have said that legal assurances and certain mechanisms were needed to smooth the PKK's transition into democratic politics.

Omer Celik, spokesman for Erdogan's AK Party, said the ceremony marked a first step toward full disarmament and a "terror-free Türkiye", adding this must be completed "in a short time".

Erdogan has said the disarmament will enable the rebuilding of Türkiye's southeast.

Türkiye spent nearly $1.8 trillion over the past five decades combating terrorism, Finance Minister Mehmet Simsek has said.